Tuesday, September 11, 2007

Zdrastvweetye from Luhans'k

Hello from Luhans'k. Today will mark our 6th trip to the Children's Home where Yan lives to visit with him. We get there everyday around 3:00 pm and stay until 6:00 pm. It takes us about 35 minutes by taxi to get to the village where Yan lives. The driver waits for us until 6:00 pm and then takes us back. He is happy to take us to the bank or supermarket if need be. For this service he charges $20 (US)/day. When we get back to the hotel, we usually try to make a few phone calls and then go to dinner. After dinner, we usually wash some of our clothes (in the sink) and watch a DVD before crashing. The people at the hotel have been very friendly and helpful.

We got a new translator yesterday who is a secondary school teacher in Luhuns'k named Valerie. She specializes in teaching children English. She spent the better part of 2 1/2 hours yesterday working with Yan, Karen and I on how to communicate. It has been challenge - one that requires our understanding some basic Russian phrases to communicate and constant repetition with Yan. We all worked very hard on our first day with Valarie as she pushes all of us. We brought a book of nothing but simple words and phrases used with children and the Russian translation spelled out phonetically. It has been a life saver. We think Valerie will be with us until our court date this Friday. Not sure about next week. It is great having her around to help us out. Yan was counting to 10 in English yesterday - so we are making some progress.

When we went to see Yan yesterday, he had pictures that he drew for Karen and I. He was very proud of them. It was raining out so we had to stay inside all day. It figures as this was the day we brought him a basketball. We looked for a baseball & glove or football (American), but could not find either. The Children's Home does have a basketball backboard and hoop, but the kids only seem to use it for climbing. Every ball they see they kick. Yan is no different. I am sure he will be kicking that basketball in no time. He is a lefty by the way.

The other children have become used to seeing us each day. They like to follow us around and help us help Yan. There are many children in this home (over 100) aging from 6 - 17 yrs old (I believe). The children have separate dorms and classrooms depending on their age and share a common playground. So Yan's "groupa" of eleven 6 year olds is the youngest group at the home. He is very close to one of the other girls in his group named Julia. When it is nice out, we spend a fair amount of time with him in the playground. He is a typical 6 year old - loves to get on my shoulders or be spun around until he gets dizzy.

Before we left the US, Karen made a neat photo album for Yan with pictures of our house, dogs, cousins, aunts, uncles, friends and of course, Babushkas. Yesterday, we showed Yan the album for the first time. He really enjoyed it and went through it several times. We think he understands the book, but are not sure that he can grasp who all the children are (cousins, neighbors, etc.). One thing that was very funny was his interest in the Sabakas (dogs). That's right, Sydney, Ellie, Daisy, Callie, Rudy, Lexie, Donovan and Sophie were the hit of the album. He told Valarie he loves dogs - whew! He also told us that he has never seen the ocean nor has he ever been to a zoo. Guess there will be a lot of firsts for all of us.

I tried to include a few pictures. Here are a couple more pictures of Yan, a picture of the hotle we are staying in, a typical home along the road headed out to Yan's village and a picture of the main street just outside the Children's Home. We will try to send another update in another day or two. The internet cafe in Luhans'k is not always up and running. We are well, enjoying each day with Yan, missing home and enjoying hearing from all of you! Dasveeyidanya - K&M





Our hotel

Homes along the road


Main street outside Children's Home





21 comments:

Grandma said...

I guess I am the first one up. A lefty , it runs in our family. Can't wait until you bring him home

the manchel family said...

I am the second one up!! Wishing you the very, very best!!! Yan is adorable. Hope to hear from you soon.
Carolyn

cathi said...

I'm the second one up. he looks like a sweet and open child. I'm sure you will all learn to communictae quickly. This is such a thrill for me to watch your progress. Karen I have hope that some day you will be a world traveler, you're doing so great!

Timmins Family said...

Awww! How cute! That was a great post. I can't wait to meet Yan face to face.
Love,
Monica

Pat&Maya said...

Privet Karen and Michael,
Glad every thing goes well. Sure Yan will learn English very soon. He looks so happy. Are you going to buy him soccer ball also? I like your Russian. You are doing ochen khorosho! Can’t wait to talk to Yan and hear your stories.

Emily's Dad said...

Дорогие мама и папа,

(Not sure how that will translate on your blackberry... Hope I didn't curse in Russian!)

On your wedding day I told you that, one day, you guys would have beautiful children... Well? Was I right? Huh? Huh?! Of course I was right!!!

I'm glad to see that Michael has the requisite "6-year old missing front teeth" -- giving him something to wish for at Christmas. He's a good looking kid -- I look forward to seeing him in a soccer uniform! ("Bend it like Michael Yan!")

It's funny... a week ago, Colleen and I had just COLLAPSED in bed after a particularly stressful day of caring for, disciplining, negotiating with, and wanting to "smack the snot out of" a couple of our kids. (I won't name names. And of course we didn't actually smack them... It was more of a "love tap"...) Anyway, we're lying in bed and Colleen said "You know, I read all those "sweet comments" people leave for Karen and Mike in their blog about how nice it will be when they finally get a child... And I want to type: 'Stop! Don't do it! Take the money and go to Paris... See Europe... Get out while it's not too late!' "

Of course she was kidding (kind of). But now that we look at that little face, with his sparkling eyes and mischievous grin, we can't help but say: "Run! Run like the wind!!! Get out while you still can!!!. (KIDDING!!!)

You guys are ALREADY terrific parents. RUN home as soon as you can so we can all welcome Michael Yan in person!

Love,

The Lancaster Sheerins

Lori Reding said...

Lefty is a good thing - everyone knows we lefties are HIGHLY intelligent. (At least, that's what I've been claiming for years!) He is so cute and we can't wait to meet him in person and to see you all back in the US. (I am still in shock about the fact that Karen has been traveling in another country for such a long time and actually doing some sightseeing. Brings back to mind some of the those childhood vacations...remember Colonial Williamsburg, Kar??)

Anyway, have fun and good luck with the Russian! David can speak to you when you return - he took Russian in high school and has occasionally attempts to use some when we're traveling over there (relatively unsuccessfully, I might add!).

Love,
Lori & David

Danielle DiCicco said...

I am so excitied for you guys...the whole story brings tears to my eyes! Enjoy every minute with him, be safe and hurry home!!! Love, Danielle

andy szczepkowski said...

What an adventure you are on! The fact that you, my girlfriend Karen, are over there dealing with translators and washing your clothes in the sink and having to depend on virtual strangers for getting around and communciating, etc., well it is just that I am so proud of you! Yan is just the luckiest little boy to have you both. I love the posts and pictures. Thanks so much for bringing the Ukraine to us! I just cannot wait til you bring Yan home!! Much love to you all....

ileene said...

Thank goodness you have written. I feel like a groupie checking all the time. Things will work out and love is all the same language! What an adventure. Be well, safe and happy!~

hurry home,
ileene

ileene said...

Thank goodness you have written. I feel like a groupie checking all the time. Things will work out and love is all the same language! What an adventure. Be well, safe and happy!~

hurry home,
ileene

Eileen Scott said...

Mike and Karen-I am so excited to read your progress every day! I love to hear all of the news, and it has become just a fun part of everyday life around here-"did you read the blog?" What did Yan do today? I can't thank you enough for including all of us, it means so much!!
The pictures are such a treat, and as Katie said in an earlier blog, I never thought I could stare at a picture for that long!! He is just perfect, and your SON--Doesn't that sound so wonderful?? Mommy and Daddy???
The fact that he is a "lefty" is just icing on the cake!!
I am so excited-I can't stand it!!!
Love you both-Eileen

Unknown said...

Dear Michael & Karen,

I am sooo excited for you guys!! I hope you will be home soon with your new wonderful son! Good Luck and keep in touch!

Cousin Erika (& John & Fallon) from Long Island :)!!

susan/chris said...

Dear Karen and Mike:
I am so happy that things are going smoothly. Before you know it, Yan will be interchanging words between russian and english in no time. My two nephews were recently adopted from Russia and the youngest arrived speaking both languages. They learn very quickly! They too, had not seen the ocean or zoo. Yan will have so many experiences, most of which we take for granted. Look forwarded to the next email. love, susan and chris

Patrice Curley said...

Hi Karen and Michael,
We're so glad to hear things are going along according to plan. It's so exciting to read your blog. What a special time for you two and Yan. Our prayers and thoughts are with you three.
All the best.
The Curley Family

Katie Owens said...

Hooray! Another lefty. Sean & I (both lefties) agree with the HIGHLY intelligent comments. Ha!
Michael, since you asked me about the Eagles, I thought you should know they just resigned Reno Mahe. Stay tuned for Ford's full report after the Monday night game.
On a more important note, we need more pictures of your son! We just love the few we have, and look at them all day.
Talk about a "teachable moment," our kids have found Ukraine on a globe, and they LOVE to figure out what the time difference is. Kelly is fascinated that you guys are often asleep when she is still up. Give Michael/Yan a big hug from all of us. Be safe and come home soon!
Love, Katie

Unknown said...

Karen & Mike

Your days spent with Yan sound wonder filled. What a great family beginning , these days spent opening your hearts to each other, in preparation for sharing your daily life, family and home.

Your homework of learning to speak with and to understand each other must be very challenging. But it sounds like your love makes it a task you do lovingly.

Enjoy!

Dave Grover

Jacki said...

Hi,
I just read all your info. Yan is adorable. Can't wait to meet him. We are so excited for you.
Take care
Love you both
Aunt Lynn & Unc Jerry

Timmins Family said...

I was reading the post from Susan and Chris and thought back to earlier this evening as I sat at "Back to school" night at SJA. I realize now how right they are what we take for granted! What an awesome gift you are giving, and how lucky are we to be able to follow along with you! Thank you so much for opening yourselves up to all of us, and letting us share in this with you! Can't wait until you get home!
PS - He is sooooo cute!!! Monica was lovin' all of the "lefty" comments, and Daniel can't wait to play soccer with him!

adoptedthree said...

The picture of the hotel brought back some memories as we traveled to Lugansk (unsucessfully though) and stayed in the same hotel. We would eat breakfast in the disco in the morning. Your son is adorable. Congrads on your court date

NoreentheDream said...

I am so happy for you - particularly that he is clinging onto one of the most important things - a basketball - smart kid!