We Made It Back to Kiev!

Sorry it has taken so long to update the blog. It has been a hectic week to say the least.

Monday: after our last "visit" with Yan, our translator took us to a very nice Ukrainian restuarant for a traditional Ukrainian dinner. We had a 4 course dinner which included borsch, a salad with many unrecognizable ingredients, a main course and desert. I also agreed to sample the Ukrainian vodka. What I didn't know was I agreed to sample a whole bottle of vodka. Our translator (Andrew) is from Siberia and likes his vodka. We walked back to the hotel afterwards.

Tuesday: After a bit of a "foggy" start for me, we headed to Stakanoff (sp ?) - the village where Yan was born. We had to get Yan's birth certificate changed to indicate us as his parents. This was required for us to be able to pick up Yan even though the 10-day period was officially over. We got the birth certificate around 1:30 and headed to Lutugino to pick up Yan. When we got to the Children's Home, we met another couple from Buffalo, NY who were there to meet there new son for the first time. Seeing them with their son brought back a lot of memories from our first day. We really enjoyed meeting them and talked about finding a halfway point in the states to get the boys together in the next 6 months - year. After reviewing the paperwork, we were permitted to pick up Yan. He was really excited. He knew exactly what was going on. The translator for the couple from Buffalo said that Yan was asking him all day when Karen and I were coming to get him. We got him dressed in his new clothes (he thought he was cool) and he said goodbye to his groupa and "teachers." You see the women had mixed emotions. They were happy for him but they also were sad to see him go. We spent the next 2 - 3 hours in the inspectors office signing papers and getting the paperwork needed to process Yan's passport. We used the occasion of leaving the Children's Home as the opportunity to introduce him to the name Michael. Many people advise using their new name in combination with their old name so they get used to it and then eventually dropping the old name. So now he is Michael Yan and doing OK with it. If someone asks him his name, he will tell them Yan. If you call him Michael Yan or even just Michael, he will respond. After getting the paperwork completed, we headed to Lugans'k to get airline tickets to Kiev and then back to the hotel for a late dinner (around 7:30 - 8:00 pm). By the time we got Michael Yan showered and in bed, it was about 10:00 pm.

Wednesday: We were picked up by our driver to head to the airport at 5:00 am, so we had to get up around 4:00 am. Our flight was on time and Michael Yan was jumping out of his skin he was so excited to get on the plane - until it was time to actually get on the plane. Walking to the plane he was holding on to Karen's arm like he was dangling from the top of a cliff. Once on the plane, he was cool and took in the whole experience. It is hard to describe how frustrating it is sometimes when you can't understand him or explain things to him. The plane ride was one of those moments. We landed in Kiev around 9:00 am and had to run around doing paperwork until our apartment was ready. We got into our apartment around 1:00 pm and Michael Yan's meltdown started around 1:45 pm. We finally got him to sleep by 2:30 and he slept for > 2 hours. The day was capped off with a long walk to TGI Friday's for some much needed wings, salad, and a cold beer. Michael Yan was more interested in the fries and vegetables than he was his cheeseburger. I learned later that the kid's in the children's home get very little beef so it is not something he is used to. We ate ice cream on the way home and then crashed.

Thursday: was a rough day. We had to get Michael Yan's physical, pictures for his visa and all of his documents translated from Russian to English. If there were any mistakes in the translation, our application for a visa for Michael Yan would be thrown out so they had to be perfect. We worked on this until about 8:00 pm and decided to call it a day. Another late dinner for Michael.

Friday: yesterday was very productive. We got all of the translated documents by 9:30 am and headed to the hospital to get Michael Yan's completed medical paperwork. We took all of his documentation and passport to the US Embassy and got there 25 minutes before the office closed. We spent the next 1.5 hours submitting paperwork and filling out forms. We we were done we were told that everything was in order and that we had an appointment for an interview at 2:00 pm this Monday. Assuming there are no outstanding issues, we were told we will get Michael Yan's visa at the end of the day Monday. This means that we can fly home on Tuesday!!!! When we left the embassy, I took Michael for a hike down to the Dnipro river while Karen got some alone time. We had to kill a couple hours until the travel agency we are using was open so I could start working on ticket reservations to JFK. Karen took Michael Yan to the park while I worked on tickets and sat in on a conference call for work. We had are seats reserved for Tuesday by 5:00 pm and headed to dinner. Finally, a dinner by 6:00 pm.

Today we are going to the circus. Tomorrow (Sunday) is election day in Ukraine. Kiev his hopping! I am sure we will find many things to do.

We finally feel like parents and it is awesome. A feeling we didn't have when visiting Yan on a daily basis. We have experienced a lot of "firsts" with Michael Yan.

- First time on a plane
- First time to get sick on a plane
- First experience with a automatic hand dryer in a bathroom (scared to death when it first came on - now we can't get him away from them)
- First pony ride
- first escalator

It is so cool to see his reaction to these new experiences. So cool to have him wake up in the morning and hug Karen for 5 minutes as he is still tired. In many ways, he acts like a 3 - 4 year old with things like soap dispensers and light switches yet we also know that Michael Yan has expereinced more dissapointment, feelings of abandonment, loneliness and rejection in the first 6 years of his life than many of us may experience in a life time. Hard to imagine what is going on in his mind. Each day, we remind him that we will be together forever.

I have a lot of cool pictures of his last day at the Children's Home, on the plane, at the park in Kiev, etc., but am unable to post due to problems in the Internet Cafe. I will try later or tomorrow. Sorry for the long entry - just wanted to bring you up to speed on where we stand. Most importantly, we are well, doing well together and really really looking forward to getting back to the states and to see all of you. K&M

Day 10!

Today marks the final day of our 10-day waiting period. We are so excited to pick up Yan tomorrow. Yesterday we went to the travel agency in Lunhans'k to reserve tickets for our flight to Kiev on Wednesday morning. Our flight takes off at 6:40 am. Yan's first 24 hours with Karen and I should prove to be pretty hectic beginning with a 4:45 am wake up call. We went to visit him after our stop at the travel agency for about an hour and then headed to the market to get him some clothes. The market was outdoors and was very crowded. Reminded of us a flea market on a Saturday morning at home and the prices were right. The sizes in Ukraine are completely different than in the US so it is hard to tell if what we got will fit but I am sure we will be close enough. So cool to see his clothes folded and lined up in the hotel room - a reminder of how close we are to getting him.

As we prepare to leave Luhans'k and Lutugino, we thought we might share a couple final pictures from our experience over the last 3 weeks:

This is a picture of Alexander our driver and the car that we travelled in for the last 3 weeks. It is a Russian built car called a Lada and is probably the most common car on the road. Alexander has proven to be a real gentleman and life saver when we were in a pinch. Never says "no" to anything. He is fluent in Russian and Spanish and understands enough English for the three of us to converse every day back and forth to the Children's home. He has been a real friend to us.

Here is one of several bus stops on the side of the highway

traveling from Luhans'k to Lutugino.

Typical home outside the city on the way to the Children's Home. Most of the homes that you see were built when Ukraine was still part of the Soviet Union. They were all one-story dwellings limited to 40 square meters in size. Notice the brown pipe that runs in front of the house. This is an above ground natural gas line that feeds each home with gas for heating and cooking. Each house is tied into the main line like telephone poles and wires at home.

This is a train crossing guard station. These stations are manned 24/7 - primarily by women. When a train is coming, they come out, lower the manual gates and wave two flags to signal to cars that a train is about to pass.

Luhans'k, like most other parts of Ukraine has its fair share of statues and monuments - most from the Soviet Union days. Each week, from Friday afternoon to Sunday afternoon, it is not uncommon for us to see 10 - 15 wedding parties taking pictures in the city in parks, at monuments and in front of our hotel. This is one in front of what appears to be the Blessed Mother on the main road that runs through the center of town.

This is a picture of the main building of the Children's Home. This is the building where the older children have classes, where the admin offices are located and where we saw the show the other day. Lately, when we leave, Yan waits at the gate in the lower left-hand corner of the picture and waves good bye. While it tears us up to drive away and leave him, he is smiling and yelling "ba ka" the whole time.

All of the kids take off their shoes before entering their "dormitory" area. This is a picture of the shoes lined up outside Yan's dorm.

Not sure when we will have the chance to write again. We are guessing our next update will come from Kiev. We hope so anyway. Please keep us in your prayers that all goes well the next 48 hours and that we will soon be home with our son. Thanks - K&M

3 Days and a Wake Up...

... before Yan is officially ours - before we will leave the Children's Home for the last time with Yan. While we couldn't be more excited for that day to come, we are sure it will be filled with many mixed emotions for all three of us. Hard to say if he can understand the permanence of what it means to leave the Children's Home, his friends and those that have cared for him the last two years. Our focus will be on Yan and making his transition as easy as possible. A transition that only begins on Tuesday and will likely go on for months if not years.

In the meantime, we continue to prepare for the final "leg"of our journey. Today we will go to the travel agency to reserve our plane tickets to Kiev for Wednesday. Tomorrow (Sunday) our translator and driver are taking us to a local market to get a few changes of clothes for Yan to get us to Kiev. While Yan is not allowed to go with us on Sunday, one of his caretakers was kind enough to list out his sizes in advance to help us with our shopping spree. We were also able to reserve a suite with an additional bed in our hotel for Tuesday night as Yan will be with us the night before we fly out of Luhans'k. So it seems like things are coming together.

We were also finally able to get the mailing address to the Children's Home. It is as follows:

Special Regional Comprehensive Boarding School in Lutugino
126 Lenin Street
Lutugino
Lugans'k Region, Ukraine
92000

e-mail: school@cci.lg.ua

For the last 4 weeks, we have enjoyed our (almost) daily e-mails from our niece Monica. She is 12 years old and makes a point of e-mailing us before she goes to school almost every day of the week (thanks to a bus driver that is usually late). In addition to her words of support and excitement to meet her new cousin, we also get important updates on what is happening at school with the "popular nice girls", what new fashions her teacher is sporting and what is "on tap" for the upcoming weekend. Our "flowergirl" e-mails have become part of our daily ritual - something we look forward to very much. We recently had the chance to talk to Maggie and learned that Monica is going to make organizing a clothes drive for Yan's Childrens Home a project for her Girl Scout troop. We couldn't be prouder and the kid's in Lutugino will benefit greatly.

We just had a huge thunderstorm pass through and the sun is coming back out. Hopefully, it will be another nice day. We are headed to the supermarket now to get our water for the weekend and later to the Travel Agency and finally the Children's Home to see Yan. We hope you all have a great weekend. K&M

(unable to post pictures today due to some technical difficulties in the internet cafe - should be back up tomorrow)

Short Break From Our Normal Routine

6 days down and 4 to go in our 10-day waiting period!

On Tuesday, went had to go to the Notary in Lutugino (the town where the Children's Home is located) to get some paperwork notarized for Yan's birth certificate or passport or both. Not sure exactly, but we got what the team said we needed. This made us late for our visit with Yan. When we finally got to the Children's Home, Yan and his "groupa"were offsite visiting one of the kids in his group who was admitted to the hospital (not sure why). While waiting in the play ground for Yan to return, we ran into the Director and had the opportunity to meet with her to discuss the completion of Yan's blood work and pictures for his passport. At the end of the meeting, The Director invited the three of us to attend a show put on by 16 of the 3rd graders. Two women from a local pharmacy that supports the Children's Home with medicine and supplies were visiting, and the Children's Home was putting on a small show for the women to thank them for their support. So there we were, the three of us, the Director and the two women from the pharmacy enjoying a 45 minute show by the kids that included songs, dance and a couple short skits. It was really well done. The kids wore traditional Ukrainian costumes and really got into it. We felt like we got the real VIP treatment and Yan really seemed to enjoy it. So Tuesday ended up being a very productive and enjoyable afternoon/evening.

On Wednesday, we went to the Children's Home early in the morning to sit in on a few of Yan's classess. It was a great opportunity to see how things work and see how/what Yan does in classes. Needless to say, we were a huge distraction for the 10 kids in the class. The teacher managed to keep them focused as best as possible. The kids have uniforms that they wear similar to Catholic or private schools. We included a picture of Yan in his uniform below. We brought treats for all of the kids and Yan gave them out during the break. He was "the man"as he handed out the party-size packages of gummie bears and the kids were thrilled. The Director (who also teaches lessons to the older kids) then gave us a tour of the facility. We learned that the Children's Home has been in operation at this location for 19 years. At the present time there are 235 kids living in the home ranging from 6 - 18 years old. They all follow a 7-day schedule that runs from 7:00 am - 9:00 pm at night. In addition to being responsible for the murals and artwork throughout the facility, the kids also handle 90% of the upkeep and maintainance. They clean, paint, garden and repair most everything on the grounds with the exception of major mechanical issues. It is not uncommon to see some kids in the play ground playing dodge ball while others are gardening or painting some of the equipment on the playground. You can see that everyone (Director, staff and kids) take a lot of pride in their home.

Last night we ventured out into Luhans'k for dinner (we usually stay in the hotel). We found a cool cafe with an outdoor 2nd story patio. The weather was great and we had a nice night. Afterwards, we walked to an ice cream stand. I ordered 2 chocolate cones and got 2 double espressos. I finally managed to get one vanilla milkshake for Karen and I drank an espresso. The weather is back up into the 70's and it is sunny. Today we go back to our late afternoon visits with Yan. We did get the address of the Children's Home from the Director, but it was in Russian. Our translater said she would give it to us in English this afternoon and we will pass it along in case you are interested in sending care packages. K&M

Here is the room where we watched the show. The pink curtain at the end of the room serves as the stage.

Yan in his school uniform

Some of the artwork done by the kids in the home

As Requested: More Pictures

From the first day we met Yan, he has been an affectionate child. When he is not running around chasing a ball, he is very comfortable holding our hands, being held, giving hugs or playing with the hair on my arms/wrist (yea yea - I know - there is a lot to play with!). But he hasn't volunteered a single kiss. Every time we come and go we give him a kiss, but haven't got one in return. We weren't sure why and haven't stressed over it - it is what it is and Yan will let us know when we are "kiss worthy."

Yesterday, we brought him another puzzle to play with. The average lifespan of most toys we give him before ending up in another child's locker is about 2 - 3 days (except the basketball which Yan closely monitors at all times). After completing the puzzle for a third time, Yan leaned over to Karen to give her a hug and out of no where planted a big kiss on her cheek! Just like that - it was on. Papa even got one by the end of the day. As are many things with this "adventure", it is hard to put into words how it felt. Let's just say we look forward to many many more.

The Director of the Children's Home was not available to meet with us yesterday so we do not have an address to pass along. Hopefully, we will be able to get it today and pass it along tomorrow or Thursday. Tomorrow Karen and I will be attending school with Yan. We have been invited to come in earliar in the day to observe Yan in class and his morning routine. We are looking forward to it but will miss the "free time" we usually get with him in the afternoon.

Here are a few more pictures ( I was afraid I was boring you guys with too many):

Karen and Yan working on yesterday's puzzle

Dude with Karen's shades on

Yan and Michael in the playground

What Karen does most when we are not with Yan: e-mailing on the blackberry

We will send another update soon. Birds: 0-2 - ouch!! The weather is warming up again. Should be in the upper 70's by the end of this week. Happy to see GAM on the blog scene. K&M

3 down - 7 to go

Today marks our 24th day in Ukraine, it is also our 3rd day in our 10-day mandated waiting period - but who's counting? Each day is centered around our visits with Yan and each day we grow closer and closer. It is difficult to leave at the end of our visit and when we do, we talk about the day's visit on the ride back to the hotel, share observations (what went well - what didn't) and then talk about tomorrow's visit. Lately, we have been working on simple phrases and commands like "please hold my hand", "sit down", "are you hungry?", "go Birds", etc. It appears as though he is beginning to understand us or maybe it is the crude sign language system we've developed or a combination of the two. In any case, the three of us are really beginning to communicate which is really cool. You can't help but wonder what is going through his head. Every day we come to the Children's Home to visit. In addition to playing and getting lessons, we look at pictures of our home, dogs, family, and friends - but we always leave each night without him. He knows we are coming back but does he really understand that he will be leaving with us one of these days? It is impossible for us to know how he is interpreting all of this.

We are going to request a meeting with the Director of the Children's Home today to see if we can take Yan out to get him some clothes for our travel home. The children that are adopted literally leave the clothes on their backs behind them when they leave for other children to wear, and the adoptive parents understand that they are responsible for bringing a change of clothes for the child when they pick them up. The Director also promised to give us a name and a mailing address (in English) for the Children's Home. We will post it on the blog in the event any of you are interested in sending care packages of clothing. The Director indicated that they need shoes, pants and shirts of all sizes.

On another note, we want to thank Ford for his sports updates. Looks like the Pats are for real again this year. Let's hope the Birds get back to .500 tonight (they will). There is really nothing that I can say about Dallas that would be appropriate for this blog. And the Phils swept the Mets?! Ford did forget to mention one other important sports highlight from the weekend. The Marlton girl's Field Hockey team (8 year olds) beat a worthy opponent from Florence NJ. The final score was 1 - 0 and Maureen (one of the DGs) was the lone goal scorer. Way to go Mo - Mo!

It's good to see Yan's Babushkas are back and blogging.

Frank - Yan says "spaciba."

Maya - I didn't ever think I would get used to having cabbage at every meal. We also finally got our waitresses to give us coffee at the beginning of our meal even though it is traditionally served at the end of the meal in Ukraine.

Speed bumps are called "lying policeman"in Ukraine. Our driver (Alexander) loves the American term more and says the term "speed bump" and starts laughing every time he goes over one. There are a lot of fireworks set off at night. We miss real coffee and salads. Oh yea, and in case you haven't noticed, it is getting cold here - in the 40's at night!

We are hanging in there and can't wait to get home with Yan. Baka - K&M

Back from Court

All went well as the Judge granted our request to adopt Yan! The mandatory 10-day waiting period begins tomorrow (Saturday) and will go through the end of the day Monday (9/24). Then it's official. In addition to our facilitator and translator, the Director of the Children's Home and the local Inspector responsible for verifying all of the paperwork "testified"on our behalf. They were very supportive of the three of us being together. There were two attorneys and what appeared to be two jury members representing the interests of Yan and the local jurisdiction. Prior to our case, we were told that adoption hearings generally do not go longer than 15 - 20 minutes depending on the region. Our case started at 9:30 am and ended shortly after 11:00 am. There were no problems or issues. The Judge and DA were very thorough and complete. They asked many questions about us, our backgrounds, family life and ability to care for Yan. Karen probably fielded 80% of the questions and was great. After you get past the nervousness and magnitude of the actual meeting, it was assurring to know that everyone in that room wanted what was best for Yan and wanted to make sure he got exactly that. We couldn't be happier with the way things went.

We will continue with our daily visits through next Monday (9/24). After that, the tentative plan as it stands today is to travel to the town where Yan was born on Tuesday (9/25), get some additional paperwork completed, head to the Children's Home to pick up Yan and then head to Kiev on Tuesday evening or first thing Wednesday morning. I believe we will go to the US Embassy in Kiev to complete final paperwork and get Yan's passport completed. Passports apparently can take a while, we are hoping to get his in hand by the end of the week (9/28) and then head for home.

It is a cold, rainy, windy day in Luhans'k, but Karen and I are going out to dinner in town to celebrate. Thank you for all of your thoughts and prayers. K&M

Court Tomorrow!

Last Thursday evening after we met Yan for the first time, we went to a department store and got him a green t-shirt (futballka) and a pair of socks. We gave it to him on Friday and he was very excited. He ran around with it and showed the shirt to the other kids in his groupa and the women that take care of the children. Saturday and Sunday passed and he wasn't wearing the shirt. When we got to the Children's Home on Monday, he was still wearing one of his old shirts. We figured he either lost the shirt or one of the older kids got a hold of it. During Monday's visit, Yan decided he wanted to do the Disney puzzle we got him (for the 12th time). He keeps all of the things we get him in a bag carefully stored in a bedside table right next to his bed. When I went to get the puzzle out of the bag, we found the shirt and socks folded and still in the department store bag hidden underneath the lego box and paper/pencil set. We pulled the shirt and socks out and helped him try them on. He has not taken either off since Monday! We may have to "peel" it off him today if he is still wearing it. Not sure if he didn't know it was OK to wear or if he was concerned about losing them, but it was almost like he was waiting for permission to put them on. Who knows - we may never understand but it is just one of many examples of the communication gap and trying to understand each other. Each day, however, we seem to "relate" to each other more and more. One thing is for sure, he appreciates everything and anything he has. He is takes very good care of his "stuff." A couple tic-tacs are like gold for him.

Over the last couple days, we have been working on drawing letters, counting and putting simple sentences together. He is learning to ask for and give things. He let's us know when he is tired of the "drills" and just wants to be a kid and play. So we play. As expected, we kick the basketball around every afternoon. We look forward to every visit and the 3 hours that we get seems to fly by in no time. Yan still asks us every night when we are leaving if we are coming back tomorrow and we assure him that we wouldn't miss it for the world.

We receieved a call last night that our court date is confirmed for this Friday (tomorrow) at 9:30 am. While we don't expect any "curve balls" at court, please keep the three of us in your prayers that all goes well.

Yan in his bedroom (sleeps 6!)

Yan's bed and night stand

Playground at Children's Home

Zdrastvweetye from Luhans'k

Hello from Luhans'k. Today will mark our 6th trip to the Children's Home where Yan lives to visit with him. We get there everyday around 3:00 pm and stay until 6:00 pm. It takes us about 35 minutes by taxi to get to the village where Yan lives. The driver waits for us until 6:00 pm and then takes us back. He is happy to take us to the bank or supermarket if need be. For this service he charges $20 (US)/day. When we get back to the hotel, we usually try to make a few phone calls and then go to dinner. After dinner, we usually wash some of our clothes (in the sink) and watch a DVD before crashing. The people at the hotel have been very friendly and helpful.

We got a new translator yesterday who is a secondary school teacher in Luhuns'k named Valerie. She specializes in teaching children English. She spent the better part of 2 1/2 hours yesterday working with Yan, Karen and I on how to communicate. It has been challenge - one that requires our understanding some basic Russian phrases to communicate and constant repetition with Yan. We all worked very hard on our first day with Valarie as she pushes all of us. We brought a book of nothing but simple words and phrases used with children and the Russian translation spelled out phonetically. It has been a life saver. We think Valerie will be with us until our court date this Friday. Not sure about next week. It is great having her around to help us out. Yan was counting to 10 in English yesterday - so we are making some progress.

When we went to see Yan yesterday, he had pictures that he drew for Karen and I. He was very proud of them. It was raining out so we had to stay inside all day. It figures as this was the day we brought him a basketball. We looked for a baseball & glove or football (American), but could not find either. The Children's Home does have a basketball backboard and hoop, but the kids only seem to use it for climbing. Every ball they see they kick. Yan is no different. I am sure he will be kicking that basketball in no time. He is a lefty by the way.

The other children have become used to seeing us each day. They like to follow us around and help us help Yan. There are many children in this home (over 100) aging from 6 - 17 yrs old (I believe). The children have separate dorms and classrooms depending on their age and share a common playground. So Yan's "groupa" of eleven 6 year olds is the youngest group at the home. He is very close to one of the other girls in his group named Julia. When it is nice out, we spend a fair amount of time with him in the playground. He is a typical 6 year old - loves to get on my shoulders or be spun around until he gets dizzy.

Before we left the US, Karen made a neat photo album for Yan with pictures of our house, dogs, cousins, aunts, uncles, friends and of course, Babushkas. Yesterday, we showed Yan the album for the first time. He really enjoyed it and went through it several times. We think he understands the book, but are not sure that he can grasp who all the children are (cousins, neighbors, etc.). One thing that was very funny was his interest in the Sabakas (dogs). That's right, Sydney, Ellie, Daisy, Callie, Rudy, Lexie, Donovan and Sophie were the hit of the album. He told Valarie he loves dogs - whew! He also told us that he has never seen the ocean nor has he ever been to a zoo. Guess there will be a lot of firsts for all of us.

I tried to include a few pictures. Here are a couple more pictures of Yan, a picture of the hotle we are staying in, a typical home along the road headed out to Yan's village and a picture of the main street just outside the Children's Home. We will try to send another update in another day or two. The internet cafe in Luhans'k is not always up and running. We are well, enjoying each day with Yan, missing home and enjoying hearing from all of you! Dasveeyidanya - K&M

Our hotel

Homes along the road

Main street outside Children's Home

Meeting Yan

We made it to Lugansk and are doing well! We flew from Kiev on Wednesday evening and got into Lugansk around 10:00 pm. We had to get up pretty early on Thursday morning to meet with the local Inspector and then the Director of the Children's home to get permission to meet Yan. It was probably around 12:00 pm by the time we were able to actually meet him.

Our first interaction was in an office with 6 or 7 adults. It was a bit awkward and Yan was appropriately shy. We were able to go back to his room to play with him for a couple of hours after the initial meeting. The time flew as the three of us became more familiar with each other playing with Legos and doing a puzzle. He was very excited about playing with both and it served as a great activity to get to know each other. He did well with both.


Within a short period of time, Yan began to make eye contact, smile, ask for help and began to show affection. It was an incredible experience. I think we were more nervous than he. There are about 12 children in his "groupa" evenly split between boys and girls. Yan shares a room with 5 other boys. They are obviously very close. He was very excited to share his new toys with some of his friends. Near the end of our first meeting, one of the other boys stuck his head in the door and asked Yan if we were his new parents and were going to take him home with us. Yan responded "yes" to his friend and immediately looked at Karen and I and asked us "yes?" as if to say "I am - right?"


Yan speaks Russian. He is a talkative child. The language barrier is harder than we expected. We have a translator with us 90% of the time, but we still feel as though we are missing so much. We had a chance to visit with him again yesterday (Friday). He gave us each a big hug and told us he was hoping that we were going to come back. Later on in the day, he asked if we were from Amercia and if he was going to come on a plane with us. Going out to the play ground he looked at Karen - called her Mama and asked her to hold his hand. The whole experience is just wild. There is no other way to put it. The children are taken care of very well. Those that work there obviously love the children very much.

Below are a couple pictures of Yan and Karen. One in his room, one where Yan is sharing a juice box we brought for him with Karen and the other in the playground with Karen. As you can see form the pictures, he has dark eyes, is missing a couple of front teeth and is usually smiling and happy. Basically, he is a normal skinny 6-year old. There are so many stories to share that we can't wait to tell you all about.


Our schedule is beginning to shape up as follows. We will likely go to court to adopt Yan this Friday. If all goes well in court, we will have a 10-day waiting period before the adoption is final. After that, we have a couple days of getting a birth certificate and other paperwork in Lugans'k and then back to Kiev for 3 - 4 days. After that - we head for home!!! Over the next couple weeks, we will be able to visit Yan on a daily basis from 3 - 5 pm. So our days will be centered around that. Great time to get to know Yan or is it Michael?

Travel Day

Thanks everyone for your comments and support. Glad to hear you are as excited as we are. We still have a long way to go, but feel that we are headed in the right direction. We hope to be able to meet Yan by tomorrow (Thursday).

On Tuesday night, Karen and I ran into another couple from the US (Dan and Margaret). Actually, it was their son who "spotted" us. As it turns out, Dan and Margaret were in the final stretch of adopting their son. I believe they leave for home tomorrow. Karen and I met them for dinner last night and had a great time and were given a wonderful opportunity to talk to another couple with so much information and insight. Another one of those things that you believe was not an accident. Thanks Dan and Margaret. We will stay in touch.

I posted one other picture (below) that really has nothing to do with our adoption process. I just thought that those who know Karen well would get a kick out of it. Enjoy!

We leave at 1:00 pm. Not exactly sure how we are getting to the new region or when - yet. Just going with the flow. We will try to post again when we get to our next stop.

A Real Rollercoaster Ride

A couple weeks before we left for our journey, Karen and I went to Great Adventure with Monica and Dan-the-man. We went on some pretty crazy rollercoaster rides including one that is said to be the fastest and highest in the country. At the time, I thought it was probably the wildest ride that I would ever go on. I was wrong.

Things really picked up beginning yesterday morning. There were informal discussions of possibilities of one, two and perhaps even three children. For 7 hours yesterday, our meeting was on and then it was off, then it was Tuesday and then it was on again. In the end, we ran out of time and were told that we would have a chance to meet today (Tuesday).

Today, we did have our meeting. We were presented with two options - a 3 year old and a 6 year old child. The people in the agency were extremely freindly and helpful. They were willing to spend as much time as we wanted answering questions. We were made to feel very at ease. In the end and after some discussion, we asked for permission to meet the 6 year old.

Tomorrow we will leave Kiev and either drive or fly to the Luhans'k region of Ukraine. We will likely be there for the next 2+ weeks if everything goes well. Please keep us in your prayers that all goes well and we are able to adopt a healthy and happy 6 year old. Oh yea, HIS name is Yan. K&M

Sunday, September 2

Karen and I went to the zoo yesterday. We had a good time. The zoo was very large. While the elephants and monkeys looked like elephants and monkeys, we got a bigger kick out of the signs posted in front of the cages/tanks. So I decided to share a few of them with you. I think our intrepreter thought we were nuts.

After the zoo, we went back to the square to relax and have a drink. Miss Madeline (one of the popular nice girls), kindly put together a care package of sorts for Karen and I. In it are notes with "Do not open until..." messages. We look forward to our messages and decided to open yesterday's while sitting in the square. We included a picture of yesterday's message - riddles!!!! We had a good time with them. Thanks Madeline!

This morning (Sunday) we went to 8:45 am mass. It was an english speaking mass and our priest had an irish accent. Today will be a hanging out day. They are setting up for a concert in the square and it is beautiful outside. That's all for now. We hope to get back to business tomorrow (no Labor Day over here thank God). K&M

Saturday 9/1/07

I found a PC in the internet cafe that has a USB port so was able to download some pictures.

Ned - I was laughing out loud at your post regarding Office Space. People were staring at me in the cafe.

We are headed to the zoo today. That's right, art museum yesterday and zoo today. I think we draw the line at the opera.

K&M

A couple pictures sightseeing. The women Karen is walking with is our interpreter. The trolly goes through the park next our apartment. It is used everyday by commuters taking the metro who work near our apartment. Karen and I took the trolly to get to the river for our boat ride.

Here are some pictures of and from the Dnipro River. I had to get a shot of the guy fishing.

Here are a couple pictures from the square. The elevated shot is taken from the bridge crossing the street just below the flag you see in the other picture. This is the "hub" of activity. Our apartment is 2 blocks "up the hill" from the square.

This is the park where I run every day. Kiev sits on the top of a hill. To go anywhere from our apartment, you are either walking uphill or downhill. What we don't do in miles, we make up for in hills/steps - that's for sure.

Pictures of our apartment

Here are some picturers from our second apartment. It is very nice. It is a one bedroom "flat."

This picture was taken from our balcony of our apartment. You should see it at night. Really beautiful.

Here is the church next to our apartment